Increasingly overtime in my experience I've noticed people around me need to be actively engaged in multiple mediums at once to maintain stimulation, and I've got this in off topic because I'm not referring to sex related play - that's whole different kettle of fish. Example of my predicament would be a previous housemate of mine would always be playing candy crush or some other game on her phone while the television was on, my current house mate is always surfing Facebook on a tablet whilst we're having a dinner party and my last sexual partner would be endlessly texting her friends whilst we watched a movie. Whilst I'm not having a gripe at others way of life, there is sometimes a point where the interference becomes rude.Am I old fashioned for actually liking to be engaged in what I'm doing at any time? If I'm watching a movie, I appreciate every second of what I'm viewing as it was made from start to finish , to me disconnecting to something else is like skipping a few pages in a book or putting in ear plugs for a minute during conversation - there's no absorption or active listening being maintained.
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