I joined rhp 12 months ago and embarked on a semi sexual revolution for myself. I've always been fairly comfortable in my sexuality and enjoyed wasting a few hours by grinding and sweating and all those delicous things with a man. Part way through this revolution though, an interesting thing began to happen, whilst I got more curious and tried a few things I never had thought I would, the actual pleasure and enjoyment of sex disappeared and I kind of began to go through the motions. You know getting involved but not really there, it all kind of felt half arsed and somewhat forced. I found that "getting there" was taking a lot longer and when I would finally climax, the sensation was not particularly intense. Even self love stopped because the reward wasn't worth the effort it took.
So I've just stopped having sex, kind of a self imposed celebacy and strangely enough I'm enjoying it. I've gone from wanting sex as often as possible, and no one round is not enough thanks, to enjoying what feels like the return ownership of my body, and guess what...orgasms are back baby! (of the self inflicted variety)
I'm wondering if this is something other people experience, the need to just stop and leave it all be, to keep your body to yourself for a while. Do other people enjoy periods of self imposed celebacy, as opposed to just not getting lucky?
- Posted from rhpmobile
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