"Sexuality is a central aspect of being human throughout life and encompasses sex, gender identities and roles, sexual orientation, eroticism, pleasure, intimacy and reproduction. Sexuality is experienced and expressed in thoughts, fantasies, desires, beliefs, attitudes, values, behaviours, practices, roles and relationships. While sexuality can include all of these dimensions, not all of them are always experienced or expressed. Sexuality is influenced by the interaction of biological, psychological, social, economic, political, cultural, ethical, legal, historical and religious and spiritual factors."I am very interested in the area of disability and sexuality. Contrary to the beliefs of many, having a disability (or chronic illness / condition) does not dampen the desire for intimacy and sexual expression. However, intimacy and sexual expression among people with disabilities are generally viewed quite negatively by both the general public and many health professionals (particularly in the case of severe intellectual and / or physical disabilities). In general, people with disability are thought to be asexual, uninterested in sex, or unable to take part in sexual activity, and this in turn has a number of negative consequences for their relationships, psychological health, self image, self esteem, sexual health, and overall quality of life. When in fact, there are many ways that intimacy and sexual expression can be facilitated and safely encouraged for those with both physical and intellectual disability. So, I am keen to hear relevant stories from anyone who has a disability or chronic injury / illness that impacts on their daily functioning, or those who know / have known someone with a disability. Basically stories about any aspect of sex, sexual expression, sexual function, intimacy....and any of the other things mentioned in the initial quote above. Of course anyone else is free to express their opinions and views, as long as it is in a civil manner, and I would ask that you please refrain from using words such as 'retarded', 'slow', etc., if referring to people with an intellectual disability (I think America still commonly accepts use of the word 'retarded' but in Australia the appropriate professional and non-ablist term is intellectual disability).
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