The anticipation of an erotic encounter...it's one of the things I love the most about sex. It's like travel....for me half the fun really is in the getting there.I love it so much that when I can, I will often purposefully draw out the time before play. The having coffee, having dinner, having a few glasses of wine, having a conversation...all fully clothed (well at least partially clothed anyway) and not touching the other person at all, pretending that everything is mundane and innocent but in my mind thinking about what's to come and knowing that they are as well. For me it's all part of the foreplay, and of course if you've been exchanging naughty texts / emails / phone calls beforehand then even better. Is anticipation a big factor in sex for you? What sort of things do you do to heighten that anticipation?
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