Kinky vanilla?

Every now and again a thread will be started or even a post thrown up where someone states they are more outgoing, more outlandish, more daring sexually than someone else - and normally a flood of posts will follow with each trying to outdo the rest in their sexual hijinks.But who are we to judge. What may be vanilla to one person could be seen as being on the cusp of sexual depravity to others (what, they do it with the lights ON!). Or when someone brags about their sexual adventures (whilst often looking down on anyone who 'hasn't done that', do they realise that others may think they are vanilla (what they only do it with one gender...).I think a lot of people are too quick to pigeon-hole others when it comes to sex, or at least things sexual. We all like to think we are daring, we are adventurous, yet there seems to always be someone who has done more, done better, done longer and will dismiss our highlights as the dreaded vanilla?So how would you feel if someone referred to you as vanilla, even though you consider yourself anything but?Mooka

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