ok, here is a good one and totally requires a woman's POV. I had met someone recently and by all accounts we seem to have hit it off in all the right ways and have very similar likes and dislikes and interests and yadda yadda yadda. Our birthdays is even a day apart, whats the odds? background on both of us we had left relationships a couple months back, mine was 3 years hers was 6 months. But that didn't seem to impact very highly on the interest level between us. Only issue we have is time as she is very busy with her career and going out on dates whenever we like is very much a pipe dream.I had gone away for work last week and couldn't phone or text as I was out of reception range and she was made aware of this. Whyen I was able to naturally I messaged to say hello and see how she was doing and this the message, verbatim, that I got"Hey. I can't do this right now. I have to be alone. I'm not dealing with things well and possibly adding another person to my situation will just complicate it more."I didn't ask questions, interrogate her about it I just said that that was ok and I would respect her wishes and I was there for her to talk to if she needed. We are still facebook friends not that truly means a whole lot but the thing that is nagging me is whether truly im being blown off, had she like met someone whilst I was gone for a week and just didn't want to tell me or is she being legitimate about her situation.I am a bit wary of the "you're a nice guy but....", " it's not you it's me" kind of sounding riffs which this kinda sorta sounds like. I dunno, maybe I am reading too much into it. thoughts?
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