Hi all,I am looking for a little advice from people who may have been in this situation. I started seeing my partner around 12 months ago and i knew she was Bi before we met. When we first met we had both had threesomes before but we have both never ventured into threesomes/ swinging while in a relationship. We used to talk about it a lot and both decided that we wanted to see where the relationship went first before playing. I have never had any problem with her bisexuality and she has always said that she would never play with another woman without me there. I have absolutely zero insecurities about this at all.The thing is, she has numerous insecurities that i will get bored of her and that men get bored easily and stray. I love my partner and hope one day soon we will be married so there is no chance of me even entertaining the thought. Today the subject of threesomes and swinging came up. when we first met we would often talk about it and she said she would love to see me with another woman and I would love to see her with another woman or even play with another couple.What i am unsure of most of all is whether i want to risk our relationship and look for a play partner with her. I am unsure whether she is secure enough to handle seeing me with another woman in a threesome. I have no doubts whatsoever that i wouldnt have a problem seeing her as long as i can join in even if only to touch my girlfriend. I worry that she would get jealous and makes me wonder if its worth it. Its funny, we are both very open-minded and have experienced quite a bit while single but when it comes to the relationship and swinging many other factors come into play. Would love to hear whether others have been in a similar situation, what did u do to resolve it?. Do you just let your partner go out and play alone? Don't know that i would be able to handle that side of things as I am sure she wouldnt be able to handle me going out to play with other women or guys (if i was bi).
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