Not much luck. help?

Hi all, So as a guest I would safely assume that being a male, one wouldn't get much success. Well so I have found anyways. So I decided on a premium membership to try and kick this off but it seems I may have the wrong idea about this site. What could I be doing wrong here? I don't message or flirt with people that dont match, I generally send a flirt first to get an idea on how to approach certain people but it seems im not having much luck. Also I get alot of males asking me if I want to come join them. Not really my thing lol. So How does a good profile read? Is this my problem here? Thinking this is a naughty site where you could just skip most of the bullshit and get to the point, it seems this is not the case. Im into almost anything really, and I dont think im an ugly guy, but this kind of drains the confidence a bit lol. I guess I am just asking for some pointers really. Thanks

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