So, we were hanging out with a friend the other day, and she said to us "Oh, I did a photoshoot with a new photographer the other day and he knows you guys, and he told me all about your 'night time' activities... is it true?". We are pretty discrete about the whole swinging thing, so of course this took us by surprise. We got his details, looked him up of facebook, and cannot for the life of us, work out who the hell he is. He knew us by name, told our friend all the details, where we had been, when, bla bla, and basically 'spilled the beans'. Only two mutual friends, one our... friend... and another friend from 'the scene'.WE choose who we want to tell about our lifestyle. We do not feel in any way comfortable about some guy, who we do not know, going around talking about us in this way. Hell, the guy is so seedy looking, we'd never have spent any time talking to him at an 'event', so god knows how he knows what went on (we don't play at events), or who we are.How would you handle this?
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