Looking for more - please explain

I'm not into casual sex, NSA, FWB etc. Been there done that, but these days I'm interested in finding someone who's open to a deeper commitment. Men seem to assume that a women who's looking for a relationship will rush things, be clingy and have him married off on the third date. Major assumption dudes :s I simply want to know that a man is open to connecting with and committing to someone. If he's not, there's no point me meeting him because I'm not offering sex and he's not open to anything else. I'm guessing a lot of other women feel similarly. So men ... if you ARE open for more, I recommend you be clear about this in your profile. Lots of women could be passing you by because it sounds like you just want to get your end wet at any given chance. And now to my 'please explain'. Men, can you please explain why you so frequently shy away from profiles where a women says she'd like to find someone special? No judgment - it's a free world - I'd just like some insights :) DG, you wrote something (sort of) spot-on in another thread: "8. Theres no point to mention seeking NSA/casual (I disagree with this bit DG - I want to know what a man's preference is as some genuinely only want to fuck around at particular points in their life). We're not in Playschool here. We're adults, and all relationships are casual until you both decide otherwise because you've taken time to determine you BOTH work together." (I wholeheartedly agree with this and it frustrates me that men seem to assume that a woman who's looking for more than NSA won't know how to relax and just be casual at the beginning. Of course everything is casual at the beginning! Derr.) - Posted from rhpmobile

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