Why I loathe the notion of self improvement and self help books.

As very young children we didn't care about people's opinions or judgements ,we lived in the present and our self worth came from authenticity.Now however our thoughts are more predominant. With thoughts come fears,and suddenly our need to be accepted grows.Our self worth is now put into the hands of others and their opinions of us......We begin to notice that different people expect different things from us,so we develop different versions of ourselves.....We become so good at living up to these different images of ourselves that we forget who we really are.....from the LonerWolf website...This article...and yes there is more...this is just an excerpt.... It really resonated with me....I hope others may find it so too xxQ

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