Don't want to come across as a slut or a player

So you join up and start messaging a few people and some chat is exchanged and profiles and persons compared. Next thing you are hitting it off with 5-6 people who you think are your match. Is there a politically correct way in getting to know a few people at a time but hiding it so you don't seem to be slutty, even if not all involve sexual encounters. Remember that this being a site of a very sexual nature it feels a bit wrong to me at times as it's not my intention to bed as many girls as possible. The girl to guy ratio gives you a sense of urgency and you want to meet as many as you can ( not all or any sexual ) making it all feel a bit slutty and deceitful when you are genuinely in search of a like minded partner. It's a circumstance thing. Can't help but feel like a bit of a player and so not the case. But in saying that, good luck to the players and the people that search for them. Different strokes for folks. Its easy to tag someone as being full of shit in those instances where motives are opposite but they are on the same field. - Posted from rhpmobile

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