I have been with Mr for just over a year and a half now. His whole family know about our lifestyle and have done for nearly 20 years now with him. I love his family and get on well with them all. I only discovered I liked the lifestyle with him just over a year ago. His family members do not swing and neither do mine. My family don't know and that's the way I want it to stay ( I have a very judgemental parent and siblings) Whether his family understand it I don't know as it isnt discussed in depth but they are accepting of it as they are polite and jovial if mentioned in front of them and they love me to bits knowing that I am bi and we have gf's. He has two kids - one 8 and one 14 years old and I have an 11 year old. None of our kids know about us or my being bi as we do not play at home if the kids are home. Other couples that Mr knows have older children that are aware that thier parents swing. Some of them still live at home and his friends say that thier kids are accepting of thier lifestyles. Prior to meeting me Mr Wefuk played at homes of couples who's kids were aware (19 & 20 year old kids). Thier kids didn't join in or watch and went out for the night so there was nothing wierd involved. This has been on my mind since he told me as one of those couples wants to play with us and I am not sure I feel comfortable with the knowledge that thier children will be home maybe even if they are 20 years old. I have never involved my child in my lifestyle in any way. Albiet I can understand that it would make it much easier when children are young adults not to have to worry about finding somewhere to play if you could just have playmates stay anytime and maybe even a little liberating not to have to worry about them catching you out. I think I would have a hard time gaining acceptance from my daughter when she is older as she has been brought up in a fairly conservative way where man meets woman, falls in love, gets married has children and lives happily ever after, which is fine for an 11 year old. I would also fear that she would tell her aunties (my sisters) as she can't keep secrets and they would be very unaccepting.When does it become OK for your kids to know your orientation and preferences?????.What are your thoughts on this.
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