A few weeks ago I made a choice of being completely abstinent for a month. I lasted less than 3 weeks. haha. Anyway the whole purpose of this exercise was for observation purposes. I wanted to see how much sex had become a part of my life - and how my body and mind would react if I got rid of it completely.What felt like 66 billion years later - in three weeks I learnt that complete abstinence had no benefit to me at all. It didn't send me into misery - but the dreaded emotion of boredom started to kick in. I wasn't unhappy or agitated - I was just slightly less happy/content/productive/etc,etc than what I was previously.I started thinking... if I structured and presented my words slightly differently - under normal circumstances someone might say I am too dependent on sex, if I can't be screwed to finish the four weeks. Sex is part of who I am - it does not consume my time, mind or interfere with my relationships, projects or work. I put it on a pedestal - never taking away from the act. As humans we were built to screw and enjoy it too!My question to you guys - how much of an impact does a healthy sex-life or lack there of, have on your well-being?AndDo you believe there is such thing as being dependent on sex - and what is taking it too far?
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