I was listening to the radio whilst getting ready for work the other morning when a lady called up and said that her husband had asked her the other day how many sexual partners she had had in her life before him. She responded with a number in the fifties and he apparently then didn't speak to her for a week.I was talking to people at work about this (we're pretty open around the office) and debated whether or not that would be a disturbing number or maybe the husband's ego just couldn't take it. For a woman in her 30s though, and say she was sexually active since 20, that's about five sexual partners per year and when you put it that way it doesn't really sound like much.But then the people at work put forth another question: If choosing a relationship, would you be more concerned about a person who had a large number of hook ups, or a person who had a significant number of long-term relationships with little to no break in between them?And why?We unanimously said the latter and said the phrase that circulated was 'practise makes perfect'. I'm interested to hear all y'all thoughts.
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