We'll Find You

We all know lots of couples state clearly NO SINGLE GUYS (usually followed by an excessive amount of exclamation marks). Of those who are open to the option, many still state words to the effect of Single Guys - If We're Looking For One - We'll Find You. We're still fresh to opening up our play to include single guys, it's only one aspect of the experiences we're seeking out. I (MrsParadise) have several traits and preferences in a playmate which narrow down the pool quite considerably. So 3 questions - Couples who do the finding how much do you play attention to what the guys are looking for? Some profiles which I've found through looking at friends lists are looking for a younger age range, or just women, this has put me off reaching out. Guys, how would you feel about being contacted by a couple when you've not listed that way, or what about the age range? And besides basic searches couples-who-do-the-finding where do you look? I would imagine some of the guys listed as women only are open to couples but maybe worry about putting the girls off by changing their listings to include couples & groups. On the flip side we'd prefer a guy who is experienced in mfm play because it's so important that the laid back, comfortable with it vibe is there, although it would be cool too I suppose to be someone's first... And because it seems single women drive the forums, here's a question for you, does seeing a guy is open to couples put you off? And while I'm being inclusive couples who only seek couples, are you put off by seeing a potential playmate couple is open to single guys?

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