Hi All,I am new to this site (and forum) and have spent much more time on "traditional dating sites". I hope that term isn't derogatory, I just mean 'Non-adult' type sites. I am open to having a NSA relationship with a lady, that's why I'm here, but at the same time, I am still fond of the idea of finding a lady with whom I connect and where we both 'click' and have something special that may become a permanent relationship.I say as much in my profile and have had a couple of ladies show interest, as I said, I am open to a NSA relationship for the moment, also. My question is simply, "Is this the type of site where I might find someone who is possibly looking for the same thing"?.I have used the non-adult 'Dating Sites' and have had a few very satisfying relationships and all is OK, but I have found on a couple of occasions, lately, that the process involved in those sites (liking someone's profile, online chatting, emailing, phone calls, finally meeting, three or four dates... then, at which time it's OK to begin talking about "THE SEX"... LOL. It seems to me that the process, although thorough and honest etc, can sometimes end up with all things seeming fine and going well, until you find that you're not compatible sexually... This may simply mean, different ideas, likes and dislikes... I'm not what I think is too 'kinky'. I'm basically into whatever the lady is pleased by ("My joy is in the giving"... is my 'heading'), and not into B&D, SM or Peeing etc. Just a couple of harmless likes that most ladies find very common and will accommodate even if it's not their 'thing'.So, I suppose the big question is... Am I in the right place? Or should I just stick to the NSA approach and use non-adult 'Dating sites' for the permanent relationship? (Obviously, once in a permanent relationship, I wouldn't be into NSA. There would be no need, for me. One interesting Lady with normal sexual drives and ideals is fine and will always suit me?I know it's a little 'obscure' a question, but comments are welcome from anywhere... Thank you
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